Hello,
My business partner Bobby asked me, "how are you so good at remembering names?" This forced me to examine the way that I approach name recollection. I heard somewhere that the key to remembering names is saying it three (3) times and three seems to be my magic number, so I agree with the rule. The interaction goes something like this:
Me: Hi, my name is Fredson. What is your name?
Player: My name is Paulo
Me: Hi Paulo (1x), meet Tim. Tim is a long time Balizinha player.
Player: Hi Tim
Me: Paulo (2x), is this your first time playing with us?
Player: Yes, I have been meaning to play but couldn't find the time.
Me (during the game): Nice goal, Paulo (3x)!
As you can see, most of the hard work was done during the initial conversation; the challenge is doing it the third time as the event progresses. Don't do it three times in a row because you will sound disingenuous. At the next game, you are the first one to greet Paulo!
The Panna Social Leagues app helps organizers recall players, but it is contingent on players using their real name and adding a clear profile picture. Why is it important to remember names? First, there is nothing sweeter to the ear than a person's name. Second, players whether they realize it or not, rely on you to introduce them to other players. As an organizer, your job is to be a connector; to bring people together. Community starts with you!
I co-founded a martial arts program in 2009, and we are celebrating our 10th year in business this year. Running the program I've had to learn over 500 student names and faces. I was able to do it using the method I detailed above. Try it and let me know how it works.
Happy organizing!
Written by Fredson Gomes - cofounder of Panna Social Leagues and organizer of BalizinhaFC
